Sydney Prine was a natural teacher and cheerleader for everyone around her, she believed in kindness and the power of giving.
Sydney Prine: A Heart for Giving
Sydney Prine had a spirit as bright as her smile. She was a cheerleader for others, a natural teacher, and someone who found joy in giving. Her parents, Ginger and Tim, say she learned early on that kindness was a gift worth sharing.
“She figured out that it’s much better to help others and a lot easier to be nice,” her mother, Ginger, said. Sydney carried that lesson with her throughout her life, always looking for ways to lift others up. She especially loved giving presents, eagerly waiting to see the joy on someone’s face when they opened a gift from her.
That’s why, for her family, it was both heartbreaking and beautiful that Sydney’s greatest act of giving came on Christmas Day.
A Life-Saving Gift
At just 23 years old, Sydney had recently accepted her first teaching job—one step closer to her lifelong dream of helping others learn and grow. But in the days leading up to Christmas, she was involved in a tragic car accident.
Her parents were initially told that her heart was too damaged to be donated. But Sydney continued to fight, and over the next few days, she healed enough for her heart to be transplanted on Christmas night.
“She worked and healed her heart, and it was strong enough to be transplanted,” her parents said.
Sydney’s heart gave a grandmother a second chance at life. Her kidneys went to two different men, and she also donated her corneas, skin, ligaments, bone, and blood vessels—helping and healing countless others.
Continuing Sydney’s Legacy
Sydney’s generosity didn’t end with her passing. Her story has inspired many to register as organ donors, including her own family.
“All of us—her parents and her four siblings—are registered donors,” her mother said. “It’s something we will always advocate for. We wouldn’t be able to start to get through this without her giving the gifts she gave.”
Her family believes Sydney’s legacy lives on, not only through the lives she saved but also through the lessons she continues to teach.
“She always wanted to be a teacher,” her mother said. “She’s still teaching. And we’ll help her do that.”
Sydney’s story is a powerful reminder of the life-changing impact of organ donation. Through her selfless gifts, her kindness continues to shine, bringing hope and healing to so many.
Kayla Corbett is thrilled to work in a job she loves after a cornea transplant.
Kayla Corbett is a Tag Office Supervisor at the Sedgwick County Auto Licensing department in Wichita, Kansas. She shares her story about how a cornea transplant changed her life.
She started to notice a change in her vision when she was in college. Kayla Corbett was 25 when she was diagnosed with Keratoconus in her right eye. It’s an eye disease that causes the cornea to become thin and bulge into a cone shape and leads to blurred and distorted vision. Her doctor said she may one day need a cornea transplant.
“At that time, I thought ‘It’s not that bad,’” said Kayla. “I’ll never have to worry about a transplant or anything.”
But her vision would decline with time. She experienced continual headaches at her job in a school district. Reading to students throughout the school day caused eye strain.
Time passed, and 25 years later, it was 2018. Kayla’s vision had decreased to the point of being legally blind in her right eye. She thought she was too old to have a cornea transplant but found hope in a conversation with her doctor. He assured Kayla that her age would not matter when it was time for the cornea transplant.
A range of emotions
She was terrified when it was time for the surgery. Kayla traveled several hours across Kansas to a doctor in Overland Park. She found herself more relaxed with the procedure once she was settled in and encouraged by the medical staff. Within an hour, the procedure was complete. Her recovery would take less than a week.
The surgery was life-changing for Kayla. She was thrilled with the results of her cornea transplant. “I noticed the changes right away. It was spring and everything was so bright and green.”
Her life improved in many other ways. Spending time with her family was at the top of Kayla’s list of treasured activities. A much-loved hobby of photographing old barns and buildings in black and white also became more focused. “I was able to take a photo of a certain part of the barn with all the details rather than a shot of the entire building.”
Grateful beyond words
Kayla hasn’t connected with the family of her donor hero and is grateful when she says, “I like the word hero because I have a hero that I can’t thank enough. Every day I thank them because I can see. I can play catch with my nieces and nephews. I can go to places I couldn’t before. I can see and that is great.”
Becoming a stronger person throughout this process seems natural for Kayla. She has immense pride in her work and said, “I couldn’t do this job without having had the surgery.”
A new mission
Kayla was familiar with the positive impact of tissue donation after her nephew experienced skin burns. “He received skin grafts that helped him heal more quickly.”
Kayla shares her experience with enthusiasm. “I share my story whenever I can. When Jessica from MTN in Kansas City comes to our office in Wichita, people are always asking questions. I can say that I’m here at this job because of a generous donor hero.”
Our partners
Midwest Transplant Network values our partnerships with DMV, licensing, treasury and Department of Revenue offices in Kansas and Missouri. More individuals can become organ, eye and tissue donors when they say “yes” to the state donor registry at the DMV. According to Donate Life America, 98% of registered donors join the donor registry through their local driver’s license office.
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Diagnosed with cardiomyopathy at 18, Steve’s journey has been a roller coaster of challenges.
Steve Richberg has lived with three hearts—the one he was born with and two gifted through the generosity of organ donors. His story is one of resilience, family, and the lifesaving power of organ donation.
A Life-Changing Diagnosis
At just 18 years old, Steve was diagnosed with cardiomyopathy, a condition that weakens the heart muscle and can lead to heart failure. He managed his health for years, but complications eventually led to a stroke, and he was placed on the transplant waiting list.
“We’re high school sweethearts. We’ve been together for 22 years. So, shortly after we started dating is when he was diagnosed with cardiomyopathy,” shared his wife, Heather.
The First Transplant
At age 31, Steve received his first heart transplant on August 10, 2016. At the time, their children, Steven Jr. and Jaden, were in sixth and third grade. The surgery gave Steve a second chance at life, allowing him to continue being present for his family.
Another Challenge, Another Gift
In 2022, Steve faced another setback—his transplanted heart was failing. He once again needed the lifesaving gift of organ donation. On April 18, 2022, he received his second heart transplant. By then, his sons were older and had a deeper understanding of what was happening, making the experience even more emotional for their family.
“One of the things we determined was best for our family was to stick together and stay strong. We were very honest with our kids through the entire situation,” Heather explained.
Gratitude and Hope
Through every high and low, Steve has remained deeply grateful for the second and third chances he has been given.
“This journey has its highs and lows and angst, like a roller coaster,” said Steve. “You want to believe everything will go smoothly; you just have no idea of what can come with it.
“I’m extremely grateful as a recipient. My life’s been extended.
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In 2024, Midwest Transplant Network set a new level of achievement for the number of organs recovered for transplantation, organ donors, eye and tissue donors, and laboratory tests performed in the accomplishment of its mission work.
MTN, a not-for-profit organ procurement organization (OPO), is privileged to work with donor families to extend their loved one’s legacy in providing 1,075* lifesaving organs for transplantation. The 399 donor hero’s gifts made it possible for grateful recipients to have a new lease on life. MTN recovered tissues from 1,447 donor heroes.
As a highly ranked OPO, Midwest Transplant Network consistently performs in the top 10% in the country among 56 OPOs, according to Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services.
“In 2024, for the first time in our history, we reached a milestone of 1,075 organs transplanted. It’s a remarkable achievement that’s only made possible by the generosity of people who said yes to being organ donors,” said Jan Finn, RN, MSN, President & CEO, Midwest Transplant Network.
“We are truly grateful to the donor heroes and their families for giving these gifts to save lives. The impact of their decision means so much, like a child receiving a kidney, or a teenager getting a new heart, or someone who’s been waiting for a long time getting the call that a liver is available and it’s a good match.
“This achievement reflects the commitment of our staff and hospital partners to honor the gifts of organ donation, and to make a difference in the lives of people who are waiting for a transplant. It’s all connected,” said Finn.
2024: An Impactful Year One organ donor can save eight lives; a tissue donor can enhance 100 lives. Through MTN, organ, eye and tissue donor heroes and their families saved and enhanced lives:
• 399 donor heroes shared the gift of life, resulting in 1,075* lifesaving organ transplants.
(*Excluding organs donated for research)
• 1,447 cornea and tissue donor heroes saved and enhanced lives.
• MTN’s lab performed 40,075 transplant-supporting tests ranging from blood counts, urinalysis, basic chemistry panels and more.
• In its second full year of service, MTN’s Donor Care and Surgical Recovery Unit (DCU) cared for 131 donor hero patients resulting in 430 lifesaving transplants.
MTN’s award-winning histocompatibility lab conducts tests such as assessing blood work for potential matches for organ, tissue and bone marrow transplantation, as well as post-transplant monitoring.
“The MTN lab plays a vital role in organ donation, where our testing helps bridge the gap between hope and life, connecting donors to patients in need of life-saving transplants,” said Christina Bishop, MT(ASCP), Ph.D., F(ACHI), Chief of Laboratory Services.
“The Donor Care and Surgical Recovery Unit is two years into operation, and we know we’re making a difference. By having a dedicated intensive care unit and surgical recovery suite to recover organs, eyes and tissues means that our trusted staff can move quickly and efficiently to help save and enhance lives,” said Lori Markham, RN, MSN, CCRN, Vice President & Chief Clinical Officer.
At a Glance
Reflecting a National Increase in Organ Donation
MTN’s performance increases reflect a national upward trend for the organ transplant system.
On average, the U.S. performed 132 organ transplants a day in 2024.
Although organ transplants are increasing nationally and locally, the waiting list grows. Nearly 104,000 people around the country need a lifesaving organ transplant — with approximately 488 of those people living in Kansas and 2,032 in Missouri.
Incorporated in 1973, Midwest Transplant Network facilitates organ, eye and tissue donation in partnership with hospitals and other professional partners to give hope and share life. MTN’s service area is the state of Kansas and western two-thirds of Missouri, with its central office located in Westwood, Kansas, and satellite offices in Wichita, Kansas, and Columbia and Joplin, Missouri. MTN commemorated 50 years of service in 2023.
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Mikayla was 14 when she passed away from a pulmonary embolism.
Mikayla Bonner was bright, vibrant, had a great smile, and made friends with people who had difficulty making friends. Most of all, she made memories with her mother, Kola Atkins, and younger sisters, Mattie and Mae.
Mikayla was 14 when she passed away from a pulmonary embolism. Mom said there was “no hesitation” to make her an eye and tissue donor.
“Mikayla’s heart valves went to two babies that night that were at Children’s Mercy. So those moms got to hold their babies. Lots of her skin went to burn victims at Children’s Mercy. I find great comfort in that those moms got to hold their babies.”
Mom joined the donor registry at age 16. “I’ve always talked about organ donation with my girls and family growing up. It’s not an easy conversation, but you just work it in. This is what you do to help other people.”
Mattie and Mae followed Mikayla’s example through Girl Scouts, their love of music and helping others. “We’re able to take comfort in knowing she helped people even before she passed away, and now she’s continuing to help people. She’s being remembered in a way that I think she’d like to be remembered.”
The family shares lots of stories about Mikayla. “We won’t let her be forgotten. We still remember her.”
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Tissue Donation is Lifesaving for Cancer Survivor Dawn Romano.
Dawn Romano, LCSW, LSCSW, Midwest Transplant Network Authorization Educator, shares her experience with cancer and breast reconstruction.
Dawn Romano is a clinically licensed social worker who focuses on organ and tissue donation as an Authorization Educator for Midwest Transplant Network. She joined MTN 15 years ago as a Family Services Coordinator.
Through the years Dawn has grown in her roles at MTN. “I have learned how to care for a family in their time of need and beyond,” she said.
What is the most challenging learning experience Dawn has faced? It was when she became a donor tissue recipient during her recovery from breast cancer and multiple surgeries associated with her care. She was diagnosed with an early stage of breast cancer in April 2008. She had a lumpectomy and 33 rounds of radiation. She believed she was cancer-free until life handed her another curveball in the summer of 2015.
She felt a lump on her breast but ignored it because she didn’t think it was cancer again. A mammogram and biopsies confirmed the cancer had returned and was more aggressive. The next four months included chemotherapy treatments, hair loss and discouragement. “Looking at myself after the double mastectomy was the hardest thing to see and live with.”
Becoming a Donor Tissue Recipient
Dawn and her surgeon discussed the possibility of breast reconstruction. “I wanted to do whatever it took to feel like a natural woman,” she said. “I wanted to be the healthiest version of myself that was possible.”
Reflecting on her breast reconstruction Dawn said it is an intimate and personal decision after a mastectomy. “Everyone needs to weigh the options and make their own decisions. Having breasts was important to me. I wanted to create a new normal.”
She stressed it’s important for people to know the reconstruction process is complex and takes longer than you expect. “People don’t realize it is more than a surgery,” Dawn said.
What helped Dawn was the strength she found in her faith, family and friends. “I started a blog to sort through my own emotions and thoughts. I documented the milestones and how I felt physically and emotionally,” she said. “It was also therapeutic for me to put my thoughts in writing and share it with others.”
Cancer changed Dawn’s life in many ways. “I have learned patience and grace; how strong I am and how much I am loved,” she said.
Helping Others
Today, Dawn has no evidence of cancer and is driven to help others. She is now involved in educating people about cancer while supporting and mentoring individuals through the process. Her daily blog is now an October event promoting Breast Cancer Awareness Month. She also shares her story informally with people.
She was raised to be a strong woman, and Dawn has always advocated for others. Her cancer and breast reconstruction have made her stronger than ever and she offers the following advice.
“First, it’s vital not to put off having your exam done,” Dawn said. “Men and women both need to have their tests done. People are often uncomfortable getting a mammogram, but cancer is more uncomfortable than having a mammogram.”
The second point is always taking another person with you to your doctor’s appointments. “Having another person there will help you get the details you need, and they can also ask questions. When you hear the doctor say you have cancer, it’s difficult to hear anything else after that.”
A Heartfelt Thanks
Thanking her donor heroes is the most important thing for Dawn. “We often hear that tissue donation is life-enhancing, but for many of us, it has saved our lives in countless ways.”
Dawn wrote touching letters to her donor hero families and shares a few of her thoughts here: Every day when I look in the mirror I am reminded of cancer. It’s been an extremely difficult and life-changing journey. But I’m alive and I’m a fighter. And I know I’m not alone on this journey. I have an amazing support system by my side, but I also have your loved one who has become a part of this journey and fights alongside me.
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MTN Staff Spotlight: Drew Toler, Director of Family Services, reflects on career & future
When Drew Toler was taking a class in graduate school 36 years ago, he didn’t know his career would be influenced by a discussion between a student and professor. Once he recalled the conversation, everything clicked and the foundation for a life-changing and inspirational career began.
In 2019, Drew joined Midwest Transplant Network as a Family Services Coordinator, but his relationship with MTN started much earlier. He was a chaplain at Children’s Mercy Kansas City when MTN wanted to offer training for chaplains to become designated requesters for families of children who had passed away and had the opportunity to give gifts through tissue donation.
“I was one of the first in the group of chaplains trained to be a designated tissue requester, and that’s how I was introduced to the MTN mission,” he said. A few years later, he became the liaison between MTN and Children’s Mercy.
In time, Drew had an opportunity to return to his home state of Arkansas to provide leadership to start a family services department at ARORA, an organ procurement organization. He stayed connected to people at MTN.
Today, Drew leads MTN’s Family Services department and provides resources and support to staff who meet families at the worst time of their lives.
“The Family Services team is a group of people who are incredibly passionate, compassionate and brave, and they join with families and support them through a significant and unanticipated loss that they’re going through. And, at the same time, empower the families with a decision to make a difference, not only in the life of another person through organ transplantation, but also to make a difference in how they will journey through their grief experience,” he explained.
Drew noted that organ donation does not take away a person’s grief. “It allows a person to create meaning and hope out of their loss. Donor hero families can transition with other families of donor heroes. The MTN Family Services donor family team continues that journey with the family by giving them effective communication about how a recipient’s outcomes are and supporting them through various events that we do to celebrate their donor family member. Sometimes a bereaved spouse or a bereaved parent may call the donor family group and just need a listening ear. This group continues the journey with them for as long as a family needs it.”
How it started In 1988, Drew was in a biomedical ethics class in graduate school. The class spent the semester talking about topics and ethical dilemmas facing the country. At the end of the semester, a student raised his hand and asked the professor, “What do you think is the most pressing ethical dilemma this country faces?”
Without missing a beat, the professor said, “Perfectly good organs that should go to help save the lives of those on the transplant waiting list.”
And though Drew heard that, it didn’t really make an impact until later when he was working as a chaplain in a pediatric intensive care unit and a family was told that their child was declared brain dead.
“I met with the organ procurement coordinator for that local OPO in Alabama, and as they talked to this family about how the gifts that their child could give to save the life of another child, that conversation from years earlier in that ethics class just drove home the importance of what the professor said that day and this type of work.”
Drew wasn’t looking to work for an organ procurement organization, yet he was struck with how families at the time of such devastating news are looking for a way to make something meaningful and hopeful to come out of that.
“I could see, as the organ procurement coordinator was talking to the family, that was what the family needed,” he said. “The family immediately grabbed onto what the coordinator said and responded that they needed to do this. They said it would help their family as well, knowing that they were sparing another family from going through a similar loss.”
That’s when everything came together for Drew, and he understood how impactful this role is and what organ procurement organizations do.
A rewarding career Reflecting on his career, Drew is inspired by the decisions families make during a significant tragedy happening in their life. “Somehow, they are able to think about and consider the needs of others at that time,” he said.
“The stories my team share about families and their interactions with them continues to be very inspiring to me and makes me incredibly grateful for the impact that the Family Services department can make in the lives of other people at the most difficult time in their lives.”
MTN President & CEO Jan Finn, RN, MSN, has high regard for his work.
“Drew has provided MTN with a stable and supportive environment for the Family Services team to work and thrive in for several years,” she said. “We were grateful when Drew came to us from Arkansas and knew he would make a positive impact immediately. We didn’t realize the depth completely until we heard how he approached every situation to make it better for everyone.”
Best practices Drew is a lifelong learner. “The biggest thing that I’ve had to learn and put into practice is being a non-anxious presence, being able to walk into a room where a family is completely grief stricken, and the emotional climate can be intense. It might be sad, it might be anger, but to be able to go into that and be a non-anxious presence means being able to bring the emotional climate of that room to a place where families can have a thoughtful discussion about what organ donation can mean.”
The team benefits from discussions about being a non-anxious presence and how they can lead conversations in a very thoughtful and empowering way with donor families.
Carol Benson, RN, MSM, Director of Hospital Services at MTN, said Drew’s work has had a positive impact on MTN. “He has been a mentor to so many, including me. I always appreciate his curiosity and ability to really listen and reflect on what you are saying.”
A new chapter Drew will retire from MTN Dec. 31, 2024. Retirement brings him to a place where he will have time for hobbies and much more. He has a four-generation family cabin that was once a small farm.
“I’ve not been able to go there as frequently as I like. I plan to go there, and I enjoy writing and gardening. I like to ride my horses in the back country out west or at my place in Arkansas. I like to fly fish and tie flies. I will travel and see family and friends who live across the country.
“There are a lot of good memories I have had over the years, lots of good relationships and friendships I know that will outlive my time at MTN,” he said.
Lessons from Drew
“Drew has taught us so much,” said Sarah Oland, LMSW, Chief Stakeholder Engagement Officer.
“We have learned from Drew how important it is to be curious…when we want to know more, we listen to understand and that makes us more a supportive presence for others. Drew is a role model for this with his team and colleagues, and we in turn, offer that same support to our donor families. He has taught us the importance of being brave in the face of grief and all the intense emotions that come with that. Our staff face challenges on the path to donation and he helps us to face those challenges, feel confident in our abilities to be successful, and to leave everyone a little bit better than we found them.”
Please join us in wishing Drew a happy retirement.
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It’s the time of year for holidays, celebrations and parades on TV!
Midwest Transplant Network is proud to co-sponsor the OneLegacy Donate Life Rose Parade® float and honor a donor hero from our area with a floragraph portrait on the float.
Donor Hero Joe Hecht
MTN chose donor hero Joe Hecht of Sturgeon, Mo., as the 2025 Rose Parade honoree.
Joe was 38, a son, husband and father. He died in July 2020 and donated his kidneys at MU Health Care in Columbia, Mo., saving the lives of two people.
Growing up, his mother, Sheila Hecht, served in the Navy. They lived in Florida and Washington, experiencing the world along the way. Baseball, working on cars and “California Love” by Tupac were his vibe. He enjoyed a life of adventure with his wife, Melissa, taking trips to the Amazon rainforest and Machu Picchu in Peru. Joe loved being outside with their young daughters, Elena and Isabelle.
“We are proud of Joe’s legacy as an organ donor. We always talk about daddy. He’s a hero. We are thankful to be invited to represent Joe at the Rose Parade®. It’ll be a wonderful memory for our family,” said Melissa Hecht.
Floragraph Portrait
All Rose Parade floats must be covered with flowers or other natural materials, such as leaves, seeds or bark.
The OneLegacy Donate Life Rose Parade® float features numerous floragraphs – portraits made entirely of organic materials – remembering donors from around the country. The floragraphs are created by volunteers. To allow the families to be part of the experience, a small portion of the floragraph is left incomplete so the family can add the final touches.
In November, MTN hosted a floragraph ceremony for the Hechts to complete Joe’s portrait. The ceremony welcomed family, friends and representatives from MU Health Care.
The Hechts will participate in parade events hosted by OneLegacy, the organ procurement organization of southern California. They’ll get to see Joe’s floragraph on the float ahead of the parade and watch from the grandstand as the float travels down the route.
About the Parade & Float
The 2025 Rose Parade® theme is Best Day Ever.
The OneLegacy Donate Life float theme is Let Your Life Soar, inspired by the Japanese celebration of Children’s Day. The float will feature a vibrant scene of colorful koi nobori, or windsocks shaped like fish, flying over a garden of flowering trees, stone lanterns and a bridge. Streamers will bear a family crest, followed by koi nobori in a sequence representing father, mother and children. In Japan, “koi fish represent strength, courage and health. These same attributes define those who chose to give the gift of life, as well as their families and recipients.” The scales of the koi fish are floral portraits, or floragraphs, representing donor heroes.
Watch the Parade
The 2025 OneLegacy Donate Life Rose Parade® float will be featured during the 136th Rose Parade® on Wednesday, Jan. 1 at 8 a.m. PST. The Rose Parade will broadcast live in the U.S. on NBC, ABC and Univision; please check your local broadcast listings for details.
MTN hosted a floragraph finishing ceremony for the Hecht family as part of the Rose Parade experience.
A floragraph portrait of Joe Hecht, a donor hero from Sturgeon, Mo. The floragraph will be featured on the OneLegacy Donate Life Rose Parade float on Jan. 1, 2025.
Melissa Hecht gets a hug from a friend during the floragraph ceremony for her husband, Joe Hecht.
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November 11 is Veterans Day and Midwest Transplant Network Ambassador Fred Harper is proud to share his story with us. Veterans Day is the perfect time to thank current and retired military personnel for their service.
Fred Harper has always taken immense pride in his work. He feels honored and privileged to be part of something bigger than himself. This was true after his first semester in college, and he made a life-changing decision.
He made a big announcement when he told his parents he was leaving college to join the U.S. Marine Corps. His dad was curious about Fred’s decision and asked him why.
Fred rattled off the reasons. “I want to get away from home. I am tired of studying all the time. And I am tired of people telling me what to do.” His dad laughed.
Military life begins
It was 1972 and boot camp took Fred to Parris Island, South Carolina. From there he trained at Camp Lejeune, North Carolina, and at Quantico, Virginia. He received orders to serve in Okinawa, Japan.
The brother he never had
Fred met Mike Miller at the Marine Corps Computer Sciences School (CSS) in Quantico. Mike was in the class ahead of Fred, so they didn’t spend much time together. “The class schedule was intense with lectures and demonstrations all day and homework assignments due at the start of the next training day,” said Fred.
After CSS, both men received orders to Okinawa, Japan. They served there for a year and became close friends. After Okinawa, they were sent to the Marine Corps Automated Services Center in Kansas City, Missouri.
They were assigned to support the same computer systems, working together closely, and spending their off-duty time on social and recreational activities. By now, they were truly closer than most brothers. Their families also spent time together. “Mike became the brother I never had.”
Their time working together ended for Fred when his enlistment was completed in 1978. Mike ended his enlistment in 1981. They stayed in touch, but not as often; careers, marriage and children took much of their time and attention.
Mike and Fred catching up after several years.
With their collective experiences and rapport, they remained “brothers.” These days, they stay in touch on social media, email and personal visits when Mike is in Kansas City. Regardless of the time between their conversations they can pick right up where they left off.
An unexpected diagnosis
Mike was diagnosed with chronic liver disease, and by late 2012, had liver failure. He was placed on a transplant registry in January 2013. Ten months later, he got a second chance at life. It was October 16, 2013. According to his doctor, Mike was hours from death when he was saved by the generosity of donor hero Neal Swogger and his family. The procedure took place at Baylor Transplant Center in Dallas, Texas.
Mike has recovered from his transplant surgery and his liver function has been restored to almost perfect health. He enjoys traveling with his wife, Janice, and spending time with his family. He has five adult children, 12 grandchildren and one great grandchild. Half of the grandchildren were born after Mike received his transplant.
An active retirement
Life changed again for Fred when he was considering retirement. He talked to his wife, Nancy, Senior Director of Information Technology Services at Midwest Transplant Network. She listened, and she wanted to know what he planned to do.
“I told her I was planning to walk dogs for the KC Pet Project and be an Ambassador for Midwest Transplant Network.”
Fred volunteers at KC Pet Project. He walks dogs weekly who are available for adoption.
Being familiar with the organ, eye and tissue donation process, Fred felt compelled to support MTN and its mission. “I’ve had friends who are donor heroes, my parents signed up to be donors, I’ve registered to be an organ donor and one of my best friends had his life saved with a liver donation.”
Fred volunteering with MTN as an Ambassador.
His best decision
Fred knows the bonds you form with fellow military members last forever. “The shared experiences bond you to each other. That’s why we call other Marines our brothers or sisters.”
Being a veteran, Fred knows the best decision he ever made was to join the Marine Corps. “It made me the person I am. It gave me strength and confidence to push forward for my goals and to help my children understand the value of being part of something bigger than yourself.” He smiled and said, “I also know why my dad laughed when I told him the reasons I was joining the Marines.”
A proud MTN Ambassador
“It is a privilege to be an Ambassador and represent MTN and the work they do,” said Fred. “It’s a quality organization and I’m honored to help in some small way. It fits my need for being part of something bigger than myself and giving back.”
Fred noted that working with other Ambassadors, those who have received an organ, or those who are donor hero families has given him a new perspective. “I realize how brave those families are to support the decision of their loved ones. They look at it as a legacy their loved one gave to someone else. The recipients that I’ve talked to are so grateful they have that chance for more life; and how they are giving back. It is an inspiration.”
https://mwtn.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/Fred-Harper.png300450Midwest Transplant Networkhttps://mwtn.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/logo-sized.pngMidwest Transplant Network2024-11-11 10:15:462024-11-14 12:04:15Marine Corps Vets Share Connection As Organ Recipient and MTN Ambassador